I've noticed that almost everyone considers themselves smarter than average, Almost everyone who posts on LinkedIn, X, Reddit, TikTok and other social media conveys being smarter than average. In addition, most individual that I interact with act smarter than average:
Being an engineer, I usually felt the need to correct someone when I think they are wrong. I got no where with this approach. They didn't change there mind and I didn't change mine was the usual outcome I've learned that smarter than average people don't appreciated being disagreed with, even when they are wrong, which I guess also includes me.
I've decided to change my response when talking to above average smart people. Now I listen and seek to understand. I look for points of agreement and clarify points of difference. I also am willing to end with no one changing their point of view.
In the future, I will be open to primarily listening to and understanding points of view different than mine and making no comments when discussing. Only if there is a need for me to make a decision, will I engage to choose one side or blend the best of both.
This is not financial, social interaction, nor decision making advice. Please consult a professional advisor.
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