"Baseball is 90% mental. Then other half is physical." ~ Yogi Berra
My son is starting to learn the truth of that quote for tennis.
Up until a few weeks ago, he was focusing on the physical part, perfecting his forehand and backhand, and improving his footwork. He was doing great in these areas, much better than I ever was. However, he still rarely won a match in local tennis tournaments, even tough his skills were very close to his competitors.
I had told his coach my observation that he was hitting well but wasn't trying to points. His coach's advice was that will come with time and experience.
A couple months ago, I decided to help my son gains some experience. Up until couple years ago, I could play competitively with my son despite him having better form and skills. However, about a year ago, he started to beat me regularly. Yeah, I have some excuses, like recovery from major surgery, but the reality was he got a lot better.
Thus, I decided to work on the 90% mental part. One day, I told him at the start of match he was spotting me 4 games won and letting me have 15 points at the start of each game. He complained that was unfair and almost quit playing. He played anyway and I won both sets.
However, we have continued to do this. Now every point mattered and he needed to work towards winning points, since losing a point was an issue. Before long, he started beating me. Then winning tournaments started happening regularly.
He has made great progress and now I'm upping the stakes. I've started to anticipate and disrupt his rhythm so that I can win points. In addition, I'm taking advantage of his few weaknesses. With him spotting me the same lead, I'm regularly winning a set or two. I expect he will figure out how to overcome my plays and start beating me regularly again.
Yes, sports are 90% mental and my son realizes that much better than if I just explained it to him.
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