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Thursday, January 01, 2026

Missed Opportunities and Lucky Outcomes

Sometimes I wonder if I had made different choices, would my life situation be significantly different and, perhaps, even better?  Who knows, but sometimes I  reflect on it.  

Should I have done B instead of A?   Or maybe even tried C?   How would life be different?   Would I be better off?  Looking back, I can imagine many cases where the answer would be "yes."  In my youth, I wasn't good at recognizing when offered a choice of a potential opportunities nor taking advantage of them.   I always had no clue I was being offered a great opportunity..

On the other hand,  I lucked out several times by being in the right place at the right time.  I played on a state championship football team due to a new coach starting at my high school.   I got offered my first job in college because I happen to be in the dorm room when I thought the interview was cancelled.   I got my first promotion from excelling in a position that was a "dead end" assignment.  After that I received another promotion faster than normal for an overseas assignment.  I clearly was lucky.

Along the way, I made a lot of mistakes.   I wish I known what I know now, when I was younger.  But that is part of growing up and none of the mistakes were a disaster and I learned from them.

Overall, I think I ended up doing OK and wouldn't change the life I had.   However, I did learn a lot and will think about choices for the future with a different perspective than before,

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