Watch from a distance. In controlled situations (e.g family gatherings, play groups, activities with friends), we will allow our daughter complete freedom, and watch from afar. It's enough distance to let her experiment, be more daring and find out about her limits. Of course, there are numerous eyes watching out for her. Also, we are there should she experience any trouble.
Talk about the topic. Even though our daughter will turn three in the fall, we have conversations about the times she is not with us. We ask her about pre-school and the church nursery. She will tell us about her activities, other classmates, and if something is bothering her. Thus, we can learn a bit about the times when we are not with her.
Encourage new activities when with us. We try to expose our daughter to new things while she is with us. As a result, we get to see and understand how she reacts to new situations when she is not with us.
Discreet surveillance has worked for many elements, e.g. toilet training, pre-school experiences, using the stairs, painting and playing. Hopefully, discreet surveillance will work as well with future challenges, such as driving, dating and even personal finances. :-)
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